Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Chris Yokel's avatar

For what it's worth, I get excited every time a Sayable Substack post shows up

Expand full comment
Annelise Roberts's avatar

This is a familiar feeling. I think for me, much of it comes from being let go of in places where I *should* have been missed. And so it becomes hard to fathom that if (those people who should have cared) can just let me go, then why would anyone else even notice that I’m gone? It’s this perpetual fear of erasure, and I’m always surprised when someone notices I’m gone. But this is a good thing to be thinking about as we tie up these endings before moving. It is not valuing the good relationships in my life to assume that the loss of my presence will not matter; because maybe what I’m really saying with that is, “I don’t trust anyone to care”.

Expand full comment
30 more comments...

No posts