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Katie Drobina's avatar

“This inability to relate to myself as anything other than what I am and what life has made me into, this is mine.” This was profound to read.

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Autumn Knapp's avatar

I'm listening to Someone Other Than a Mother by Erin S. Lane right now and thought of you several times. I'm on the other side—as a young woman, I was told the same things you were about the "right" way to be a woman, and so I birthed 3 kids, lost 2 kids, and adopted 3 kids. I'm 42 now and no longer believe many of those things I was taught, and yet I still have the kids and need to be a present mother to them. Been doing so much thinking, reading, and praying about how to be *me* and a mother.

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