join the launch community We do not have big emotions in our house. We do not have yelling or outbursts of tears, we do not have unquenchable laughter or sadness that won’t dissipate. If there is a gauge for demonstrative, Nate and I fall somewhere below a quarter of a tank. And so when something recently happened to us that left me crying so hard I vomited into a garbage can and Nate so hurt he called one of our dearest people with red hot anger burning in him (not at them, just in him), we didn’t exactly know what to do. We are not adept at big emotions here.