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Sherise Falk's avatar

Thank you for sharing this. As I’ve come to grips with some of my own trauma, I had to practice not even journaling for a time because I had used journaling to “fix” myself and to normalize the abuse I had experienced my whole life. As I’ve started healing, I’ve wanted to write more, but some part of me feels it’s wise to begin again slowly because I’m so prone to re-enter the ways I used to turn hatred onto myself through my writing. It’s so challenging to learn how to balance the need to process with others and the need to “just be” and accept.

I’m glad that you are finding a path that is healing for you and that you’ve taken on the burden of sharing this wisdom. It’s blessed me today.

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Rebekah's avatar

I say to my teenage daughter, your information is your information and you share it with who you want, when you are ready and safe enough to do so. And that maybe with some people, never.

Lore, the same applies to you. You owe no one the debt of knowledge about you. And I for one would rather hear of the lessons and teachings and insights that the 'thing' itself.

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